Remembering IBT’s Friend Sandee
A beautiful smile, welcoming hello, mother, wife, daughter, and IBT volunteer describes our friend Sandee Kingsley. As a member of the IBT OUTREACH committee, Sandee never said “No” when asked to share her story. She was a calendar model, speaker at the IBT October Event, and made a video for the website to get the word out about IBT grants available to breast cancer patients.
When Sandee was diagnosed she said "Why me? I'm a good person, I do what I 'm supposed to do.” And then after a while she thought, "Why not me?" She asked herself, "What can I do to make people happy, make their cancer journey easier, show them it isn't all bad? No one ever tells you about the other stuff that you will experience during your treatment.
Sandee found It's a Breast Thing shortly after her first diagnosis and attended their October Event. That's when she knew she wanted to support this organization. She met wonderful women, many going through their own breast cancer journeys. Prior to being diagnosed, she was unaware of how many organizations and resources are out there for breast cancer patients. She loved the fact that It's a Breast Thing has many doctors involved in it’s organization for a variety of tasks. She knew if there ever is a need or question she can turn to It's a Breast Thing and they will get her in contact with the correct person or organi-zation.
Sandee received a $500 grant in 2016 shortly after her diagnosis. She was also awarded a second grant of $1000 when she received her second diagnosis. These grants were such a relief for Sandee and her family during these difficult times. The fact that It's a Breast Thing does not tell the recipient how or what to spend the money on made all the difference in the world. She could choose to pay bills or take her family on a much needed vacation. It didn't matter, the money was hers to use as she saw fit.
Sandee and her mother were on the OUTREACH committee for It's a Breast Thing. This committee helps to educate doctors, hospitals, organizations, everyday people on who we are, what we do, and how IBT can help breast cancer patients. Sandee was not defined by her cancer but served as an inspiration to many who shared in her illness. IBT was blessed to have this wonderful courageous woman take an active role in their organization.
Sandee, age 49, passed away on Friday, May 3, 2024. Her impact on It’s a Breast Thing's mission will continue to live on and she will be missed by all of us.